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Update: I have adjusted setting here to only receive messages from Coparenting profiles that are within BC, and will only open messages from profiles that include photos, and will only respond to ones that are articulate and thorough. Everything else such as non locals, donor only, no photo, no write up will be filtered out. I appreciate your understanding.
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I’ve always known I’d be a mom, and am here to see if I can make that happen with someone who is on a similar wavelength and timeline. Unfortunately, “the” long term relationship ended and it’s taken me a long time to feel ready to date again. This last year has been more focussed on rebuilding my business and preparing myself for the likely "single mother by choice" life than dating, so here I am. I have a few friends who have amazing coparenting lives and think it could be really great, and of course the more family the better for children . ☺️
I have 18 x 36-year-old eggs, but i have a strong desire to get pregnant without clinical assistance while it's still safe. My fertility related bloodwork remains very high for my age, but is starting a very slow decline (dropped after egg extraction 6 years ago and holding steady since then). Still “like an average 35 year old” according to the clinic, so at least I can keep the anxiety at bay until I start trying! All other testing is up to date and healthy. Rh+
I keep checking in at the fertility clinic and they keep telling me I have “at least 2 years”… that’s been their repeated advice after reviewing blood-work annually since 2016! Apparently I’m not aging reproductively, which tracks considering that my grandmother had a happy, healthy accident at 48 and my great grandmother had her last at 51!
I don’t want to wait much longer though! I'd like to be pregnant as early as this summer if on my own, or if there is a seemingly perfect co-parenting situation out there I would definitely delay to make sure we get to know each other properly. Seems unlikely, but why not put it out there?
Willing to relocate within BC, specifically: Sunshine Coast, Squamish, Whistler, Kelowna, Vernon, etc. My work is tourism-dependent, I want to be close to family, no more than 1.5 hours to an airport. I will not coparent across borders, and would want to live very very close to the other parent(s). Shared house? Townhouse? Same street? I’m open and flexible and excited to find creative ways to build a family 🥰
An ideal coparent might be a single or partnered person (or maybe even couple) of any sexual orientation who is healthy, values critical thinking, and also brings value to the table in the form of time, love, family, other positive support networks, joy, patience, and excellent communication skills, to name a few! I’m fairly flexible about who or how, and more interested in aligning with shared values and goals.
I’m not sure if this should matter, but I’m told fairly regularly that I am intelligent and attractive and that I will be a great mom. I come from a family of educated professionals and professional athletes. I am vaccinated and feel strongly about social responsibility. I am agnostic and if I were to identify in any way it would be as a Humanist. Left leaning but I also run 2 profitable businesses, so find balance with charity and volunteering. Happy to share personal health history early on.
Legally binding agreements, bloodwork, etc mandatory of course. :)
Looking forward to hearing from you, and if I’m not for you, thanks for reading and happy hunting! 🥰
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