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Other Info:
Hi, thanks for reading my profile, how are you doing?
I would describe myself as being a very clean, heathy, respectful and safe family man who is simply looking to help and has some very genuine reasons.
What are my reasons? Well I guess you could say that like most men I was totally terrified of having babies, in fact in my younger years if a women had asked me to have a baby I'd have done a Forest Gump and set off running as I viewed babies as loud, smelly, expensive creatures.
However all of that was about the change when me and my partner had our first child who is a perfectly healthy young boy, in fact within two months I was sitting with my son in my hands nearly crying and wishing I'd have done this 10 years earlier.
You see to a baby you are not just a mother or father, you are also a clown / actor / story teller / leader / teacher / saviour / rescue operative / healer / and even an magician. To a baby you are not just a person, you are a being of great magical power who seems to know everything about this strange world, you are this babies EVERYTHING, in fact to a baby you are a wizard Harry.
A wizard you say? Yes you are, because it reality YOU are the first person to show this baby the sun and moon, the first person to show this baby bubbles or balloons, the first person who gives this baby chocolate or fruit. Honestly YOU are the first person to show this baby music, art, nature, toys, games, cartoons, in fact for this baby its you who opens every magical door seeing them look at you like a magical living God, like you are their entire world.
I was very happy being a father and then maybe two years later I was sitting on Facebook one day and a story popped up on my news feed about a women who had used a sperm donor, and reading the story it actually upset me a lot and even made me feel guilty. You see what I'd never known is there are literally millions of people out there who would love a baby but can't, these people are often lesbian couples, women with infertile partners, and single women that are running out of time.
Here I am a man who spent most of his life terrified of having babies, running away from having babies, and now I'm sat here with a lovely child in my arms, when really there are millions of people out there who will never have that chance, in which case maybe helping a very small and select amount of people would be a bad thing? So they can also know the love of a child.
WHAT I'D OFFER
Firstly please remember that I'm a safe, clean, hard working family man myself and do have genuine reasons for wanting to help, in that case then what I'd offer is.
Donation primely by NI / PI donation methods. Now I'm sure that will put some people off but honestly having looked into AI and the risks associated with plastic and airborne particles I do not feel that AI is a safe option. Plus to be totally honest with you I'd not even want to do this with someone who fears men or who can not trust me at all.
When the donation was successful then please remember I already have a family of my own, so from that point I would be having no more contact with the mother or child, meaning I would not be at the birth / I would not be wanting to co-parent / I would not be paying child support or giving any financial aid and would giving you 100% custody for life, with no drama or comebacks from me.
This is effectively giving you a baby in a safe, honest, friendly way where you are left with 100% control and custody for life, with no drama added from me. If that interests you then by all means send me a message and maybe we can talk more. I would also suggest speaking to me more about the donation method and maybe giving another human being a little trust as this is a big subject.
I do however wish you well and good luck on whatever option you decide x
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