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Born in London and raised in both city and countryside. Looking for a caucasian single heterosexual man who wants to create a life or two and co-parent. As I have, bizarrely, dated mostly caucasian men and have always found myself in groups comprising caucasians, while I might be the only person of colour or one of a handful of people of colour in the room, it makes sense to me to be creatnig a family with a caucasian man.
Next, it would be great if we were living near one another so that we can increase our chances of conceiving. But, before embarking on our conception journey, let's spend some time getting to know each other in-person, but not just meeting up for discussion to see if our values align, but doing things together to see whether we would be a good fit as friends.
Next, I am quite traditional. I would therefore like to find someone who is ready for us to make up that story of how we met, then I ended up pregnant, and how it didn't work out between us etc, but that we have remained good friends and are committed to co-parenting.
My faith is quite important to me, so, ideally, I would like to find someone who shares my faith, so that we can raise our child/children in that faith. I certainly don't attend church every Sunday but I do pray at home sometimes, and like the odd Easter church service, Carol service and midnight mass at Christmas time. If you are not religious, no problem, but it would be great if you would at least be open to having our child/children baptised in church and attending Sunday school or Holy Communion classes later, and possibly attending Christian schools as I hear they tend to be of a good standard. Living in London, I think it is important to keep children busy with organised, wholesome activities, and keep them as safe as possible and away from the wrong crowd.
I was privately educated and boarded, and would like to find someone who very much values education and has the means to send our child/children to an independent/private school and does not need me financially to do this.
More importantly, I am looking for someone who is excited by the prospect of becoming a dad, and who will be there to support me, not just during the pregnancy, attending appointments and classes with me etc, and helping with preparation for the new arrival, but someone who will also be there to raise our child/children, be a patient dad and will set a good example.
Let's have a chat.
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